There's no call to have an understanding with someone who punched me until and unless she apologizes and means it. In fact, being that vulnerable to someone who has that much power is something I've been well-trained to avoid. I've plenty of empathy for those who do not assault others.

[Anders stands.]

You've the shield of your hidden identity and past. I've no such thing. Perhaps do not judge me so quickly. Or perhaps do. Your actions are your own to choose. Good evening.

[And with that, he's turning to go. No empathy, his perspective is entirely wrong? He has enough self-doubt after slipping with control; he doesn't need this on top of it. Fate will speak with him again sometime or he will not. That is up to the elf.]